Skip to main content

It Takes a Community


I gave my class the following prompt this week: Is it better to say the right thing or do the right thing? Or, in other words, do actions speak louder than words? Many times during our class discussions students have brought up that it is so hard to be kind and do the right thing sometimes. However, they do not give themselves enough credit. The field trip last Friday illustrated this beautifully.

Last Friday, all of the seniors took a trip to Lorain County Community College for some climbing, high ropes, and team building. There were nerves, fear of heights (including yours truly), and excitement to get out of the classroom. Some students were literally shaking at the thought of climbing to high heights in front of their peers. Some resisted participation at first. Even I was not eager to give it a go. However, something magical began to happen as the students were taking on the various challenges. They began to cheer for, encourage, and motivate each other to higher heights. You couldn’t help but smile when students accomplished something, and the entire room erupted in cheers. It is contagious. Students grew in their courage as the afternoon wore on, challenging themselves to greater accomplishments. I even completed a couple of challenges because of the encouragement of students. 

Furthermore, and maybe more importantly, when a student was hurt or disappointed the other students were there to pick them up and tell them to try again. What they were exhibiting was kindness in action. They were not just saying all the right things, they were doing them. It truly was a community of unique individuals who wanted to see each other succeed. I did not see jealousy, envy, or teasing, only positive reinforcement, and it was contagious. What if our classrooms and our daily lives operated more in this manner? It would be nice to bottle it up that community and pass it out for free whenever it was needed in our world. I, for one, felt as good about that day of school than one in which students all earn an A on a test. This might matter more.

If you zoom in you can see my terror. 

Mrs. Wise and I were encouraged by the students to challenge ourselves beyond what we thought we could do.  

Comments

  1. Haha, you and miss wise look so cool!

    ReplyDelete
  2. They really are an awesome group of kids. You're right: they don't give themselves enough credit for their own actions. :)

    ReplyDelete
  3. You rocked it on the ropes course! I am so glad that you felt encouraged by us! So glad you were there with us:)

    ReplyDelete
  4. yea that fun and got to try some new

    ReplyDelete
  5. Next year, (as a weird thing) I think it could be an interesting experiment afterwards to time people on some of the courses, and then compare their times with the amount of years they've lived with cats to study the fear reducing effects of cat pheromones for treatment of anxiety, but that was probably not the message I was supposed to learn from that trip.

    ReplyDelete
  6. trying something new is always different but exhilarating

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Using the Tools of Success, Why Not?

There is a common saying that says, “work smarter, not harder.” I often find myself repeating this mantra to myself when I am spending too many hours on school work, whether planning or grading. Granted, I want others to think of me as a hard worker, who puts in many hours devoted to my teaching craft. However, it is so easy to go overboard because we associate long hours with hard work. What if we could do a simpler task or create a more efficient plan that would accomplish the same goal? I frequently find that the more simple lessons that I plan wind up being the most interactive, engaging, and thought-provoking, and it leaves me wondering why I spent so much mental energy and time planning a more complex lesson. This same idea applies to assistive technology in the classroom. When it comes to reading, writing, grading, and editing there are many tools at our disposal. From Read and Write Gold to Speech to Text, we have so many valuable tools that would make our lives easier. I ...

Using Summer and Family to Recharge and Reflect

One of the really great benefits of being a teacher is having the ability to have the summer off to grow professionally, spend time with family, and to relax and recharge for the following school year.  While I absolutely love my job as an educator at Lawrence school, it is necessary to have that time to reflect, play, and grow personally and professionally.  This past summer was filled with opportunities to do just that.   Let’s start at the beginning.  Our first order of business was to take a trip across the country to Colorado to visit friends and then on to Phoenix, Arizona to visit family.  If you have ever traveled with very young children on an airplane, you can empathize with the challenges of packing, escorting, and most importantly feeding everyone along the way.  A hungry 3-year-old is a hangry 3-year-old.  I think some adults can relate as well.  Once we got past the logistics of traveling, we were off on a great advent...

Learning to Grow

Sometimes being vulnerable and taking a risk in front of our students is the best thing educators can do. I have decided to go on a writing journey with my students through the use of this blog. They each have a blog, and we will all post a weekly blog to tell stories, communicate ideas, make arguments, and expand our horizons. One of the questions I ask myself on a daily basis is, how can I make myself better today? No, I’m not upset with who I am as a husband, father, teacher, and friend, but it’s about being the best that I can be. It’s about embracing the process, working doggedly toward our goals and our passions and developing strong relationships along the way. My students and I will share our passions, goals, successes, and failures through our blogs. We will continue to work toward developing higher character, which means demonstrating more kindness, more gratitude, and more persistence. We will work toward developing these qualities while chasing our passions and develo...